Five Obnoxious Things Men Say To Women That Make Them Mad!

There are things I KNOW that I shouldn’t say to my wife!  Yet, sometimes, they just come out.  Huffington Post asked a bunch of couples therapists for the most common things men say that make women angry.

Here are the top five things men say to women that make them angry:

1. “Calm down.” It’s the worst way to calm someone down, because it doesn’t work. And it’s like saying they’re overreacting and their feelings aren’t valid.

2. “Did you really NEED to buy that?” It puts them on defense.  If they just bought something, they’re probably excited about it.  So, unless you expect them to return it, you’re better off having a larger discussion about finances later on.

3. “Why are you so upset?  That wouldn’t bother ME.” What women hear is, “You’re crazy.” So again, it’s like saying their feelings aren’t valid.  Personally, I have never said this nor have I thought it.

4. “I’ll do it, just stop nagging me.” It’s like trying to shift the blame, and make it seem like they’re being unreasonable. However, if you haven’t done something you said you’d do, then maybe it’s not unreasonable to bring it up again.

5. Comparing them to an ex. Especially if you say your ex was better at something. It can bruise your ego even if it’s something dumb, like saying they were a better driver and guys don’t like it any more than women do.

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